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Old 11-24-2017, 08:02 AM   #16
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Forced, That’s the greatest reply I’ve ever read on this site. Hahahahaha wow
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Old 11-24-2017, 10:48 AM   #17
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Things were different 40 years ago. 40 years or so ago when I was 34 I married a girl who was 16 years old. The marriage worked for 30 years during which we raised 3 great kids all of whom have graduated from college. We are blessed 3 great Grand Kids.

The age difference eventually caught up with us and we divorced. My ex (we are both still friendly) then became a flight attendant with American Airlines. Truth be known she is a better person today for having met me as opposed to staying with her parents. Does that make me a pedofile?
You say that you were married when she was 16...but you neglected to mention how long you had dated prior to the marriage...and how old the young girl was when you initiated your "sexual lives" together. If you "dated" for a few years, and you started "making out" when you were 32 and she was 14...then you should have been locked up, IMO.

I was there 40 years ago...and the notion that 30 year-olds should hang around with grammar-school kids was never really "encouraged". Unless you lived in Pakistan.
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Old 11-24-2017, 11:59 AM   #18
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You say that you were married when she was 16...but you neglected to mention how long you had dated prior to the marriage...and how old the young girl was when you initiated your "sexual lives" together. If you "dated" for a few years, and you started "making out" when you were 32 and she was 14...then you should have been locked up, IMO.

I was there 40 years ago...and the notion that 30 year-olds should hang around with grammar-school kids was never really "encouraged". Unless you lived in Pakistan.
He's willing to share a story, putting aside any concerns as to what others may think. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, where you assume the worse. At least your reply strikes me that way.
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Old 11-24-2017, 12:12 PM   #19
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He's willing to share a story, putting aside any concerns as to what others may think. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, where you assume the worse. At least your reply strikes me that way.
He shared a story...and he concluded it by asking if we think he is a "pedophile". If he hadn't asked the question...then I wouldn't have submitted my post.
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Old 11-24-2017, 02:19 PM   #20
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You say that you were married when she was 16...but you neglected to mention how long you had dated prior to the marriage.....
Best I can recall we socialized for a couple of months. She then moved in with me for a couple of months after which we got married. All this took place while she was 16. She finished High School while we were married. He Father was a alcoholic and her Mother worked multiple jobs to survive. This left her basically unsupervised. Her Mother was OK with our relationship. Her Father didn't give a damn. I believe that I brought discipline to her that was missing in her life.
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Old 11-24-2017, 04:11 PM   #21
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He shared a story...and he concluded it by asking if we think he is a "pedophile". If he hadn't asked the question...then I wouldn't have submitted my post.
And I never criticized you for posting anything.
My feelings are that had he felt any guilt over it, he never would have posted anything about it. You're the one that seemed to find guilt in it, nobody else did.
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The more it's in the headlines the more used to it people will get and the left will convince everyone it's perfectly normal behavior.
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